Right after news broke that Queen & Slim actress Jodie Turner-Smith married actor Joshua Jackson (who is white), black men have allegedly been flooding her DMs with the ultimate disrespect. More inside…
Just a few days ago, reports were released that Queen & Slim actress Jodie Turner-Smith had tied the knot with "When They See Us" star Joshua Jackson. It’s also reported they’re expecting their first child together.
While some people have been showering the 33-year-old actress with congratulatory messages, others – in particular black men – have been flooding her direct messages with HATE. She hopped on Twitter to reveal she has been getting messages from black men and they have been busy calling her everything but a child of God, including a “bed wench.”
”Hey Siri, what is a “bed wench” and why are there bm in my dm’s calling me that?” she captioned a “U Mad?” gif on Twitter.
If you didn’t know, “bed wench” is a derogatory term used for black women who date white men. It goes back to slavery times. These days, people call black women who choose to be with white men “bed wenches,” which there really isn't a comparison based on history. During slavery, "bed wenches" were female slaves FORECED to sleep with their slave masters. There's a huge difference there.
Here’s a good definition of the word as well:
"Bed wench" is a form of gendered abuse leveled at Black women by Black men. It's used to control and attack BW sexuality that isn't subservient to BM. It's also highly ironic considering dating rates among BW & BM.
BW u have dun ENOUGH for the revolution 2020 is about self care https://t.co/Jl5a9AFAZ9— Shantal Otchere (@shantalotch) December 23, 2019
What’s crazy is the fact that when a black man marries a white woman (or non-black woman), black men don’t even flinch. And if a black woman comments on their interracial coupling, she’s quickly labeled as a “bitter” woman. Let a black woman find her soul mate in a white man and she’s all types of derogatory terms. Hmph.
Twitter has been reacting to Jodie’s post with opinions from both sides:
I have been called a bed wench for the simple fact that I support black women finding love and happiness wherever they find it. These men are really sick and depraved. I’m sorry this happened to you. https://t.co/bCvQA7QtsZ
— (@SassyandGeeky) December 23, 2019
I wish BM would stop using the term bed wench. BW during slavery had no choice and were raped. To make up a term about a person who was forced into sexual acts is disrespectful asf.
— DarkGoddess (@DarkGoddessEve) December 23, 2019
Exactly. I don't understand all the vitriol. I despise hearing a black woman be called a bedwench. This woman is not an enslaved person. She is not her partner's property. She chose to date and marry this man out of her own volition.
— Ms. Albatross (@MarshaCake) December 23, 2019
A bedwench ma'am is a self hating woman who sleeps with white people to feel empowered. After reading your tweets I would have to agree that you are in with bedwenches. No one is mad. FBA call bedwenches out daily. We are on code ma'am. Have a good day.
— alee209 (@AlphaLee209) December 23, 2019
Wait... Black men really flooded this Black woman’s DMs calling her a bed wench just because her husband and father of her child is a white man? Like yall even had a chance with her lmao? Y’all are pathetic https://t.co/ZgJotJhmrm
— W.E.B. DuBarnes (@DrTGIF) December 22, 2019
Women of color calling Jodie Turner Smith a bed wench because her husband is white are the lowest and most RACIST pieces of shit. I said what I said. Don’t claim that you want acceptance and unity and then go put one of your own down because she has a white husband. Hypocrites.
— Jillian Galvin (@jillianamandaa) December 23, 2019
SO YALL BLACK MEN IN JODIE TURNER SMITH DM CALLING HER A BEDWENCH BC SHE MARRIED TO A WHITE MAN BUT WHEN YALL MARRY WHITE WOMEN ITS OK? GTF
— (@darealmissblaze) December 23, 2019
You can be indifferent to IR relationships WITHOUT calling black women “bedwenches”.
A bedwench is a black slave woman who was being R@PED by her white slave master. That’s INVOLUNTARY. A black woman CHOOSING to date/marry a white man is VOLUNTARY. Saying this proves u hate BW
— The Black Anti-Hero (@RJTheRenegade) December 22, 2019
A bedwench Is YOU. No need to look up the definition https://t.co/nyZr0WeA6X
— KassDRE (@RyanDre13) December 23, 2019
Whew, chile! The narcissism is nauseating. Thoughts?
Photos: Getty/MEGA
source: theybf
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